Help with posting my friends...Please

I want to be able to embed the videos and pictures of my posting.

I don't want a link.

I read in the help page
"When creating a new thread or post, find the Insert Video button"
that option is not available for me

I also try to add a you tube video and I just get the link...

Please heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllllllllllpppppppppppppppp!

Thanks in advance everyone
Much love ;D